This is my favorite website because it is all about me...no ego there, eh? Honestly, everyone on the planet has something to say and I am no exception. So forgive me if I'm overly verbose because my website allows me to exercise one of my most favorite passions in life - helping people obtain a good and quiet life.
 Actually MeetTheDoctor.net is not about me at all; it is all about YOU or is it? I am not attempting to be cryptic here and I promise to explain this statement in just a moment.
I have spent the better part of over 25 years observing human behavior and as a behavioral scientist I study the effects of choices and excuses. I’ve earned my gray hair and this means I have lived in the middle of what I teach. I know what it means to suffer trials and tribulations (see my bio). I also know what it means to live a quiet life of happiness and
contentment. Some of the choices I have made in my life have been horrible. Some have been right on the mark and have brought me some nice rewards. It is all about choices and not excuses!
My website offers resources to learn the good, the bad, and the ugly about yourself and others as you interact and go about your life. It is designed for you to take a good look at yourself and make the ultimate choices to change, to improve or to simply accept the status quo.
I will show you what has worked for me and countless others and it can work for YOU too if you have a heart to change.
“For the heart of every problem is the problem in the heart.”
The word “sorry” means to change in my idiom. I do not teach doing your best is good enough. That is pathetic! What I teach is DOING WHAT IS REQUIRED! Doing your best gives you an excuse to blame and blame is a useless concept.
 We live our lives surrounded by relationships. We relate to our families, our friends, our co-workers, our pets…even the environments, etc. In fact we are a sum total of our relationships - both good and bad.
We acquire excess baggage throughout our lives and drag this baggage into our next set of relationships. The world tells us that our problem is lack of self-esteem, the need to find and confront our “inner child” and a whole lot of other nonsense that focuses our attention on SELF.
Our problem is not lack of self-esteem; our problem is too much self–esteem!
Throughout our lives we live and learn by the relationships we keep. We are influenced by parents, family, friends, advertising, and tons of other messages that are constantly streaming through our senses. Add to the mix Internet, technology, and religion and it goes way beyond boggling the mind. But the world emphasizes that we are unique beings.
The fact that we are all unique negates the definition of unique!
WE ARE NOT UNIQUE, PEOPLE! We are bound together in a fabric of co-existence that was once founded on love but now embraces lust. We, as human beings, seek love and communion, but somehow along the way this all changed. Now we live our lives seeking companionship and lust. And if there is no hope of love do we abandon ourselves to lust?
 Yes we do!
So what happened to change the reality of life? Has the reality of love and communion been mis-perceived to be lust and companionship?
The human mind sees reality through its conscious mind but “perceives” reality through the subconscious mind. Reality can be very DIFFERENT than perception. Let me give you a poignant example of how the “world” trains your perceptive subconscious mind versus the reality that your conscious mind sees:
Which one of the following goals are good goals?
1. To want to get married and have a wonderful, happy and loving marriage?
2. To want to have children who are happy, successful, and loving?
3. To have a successful, fulfilling and rewarding career?
4. Is it a good goal to want to have fun, bonded, loving, and meaningful relationships with other people?
Did you answer yes; they are all good goals?
The answer is none of them are good goals!
Why?
You should never have anything for a goal that is not 100% under your control, AND each and every goal should be motivated by love.
 With the definition of a good goal given above, the central truism offered is that YOU can only control yourself and not others. Our attempts to manipulate situations only cause anxiety and stress.
Almost all goals that we have in our life are wrong.
Everything that we do, we do because of a goal we have. When we get up in the morning, it’s because of some goal that we have; we are hungry for breakfast or we need to go to work. If we go to the grocery store it’s because of some goal we have. If we are kind to people, it’s because of some goal that we have.
Now we don’t always know what they are because a lot of these are subconscious goals –perceived goals. The goals we have are the reasons for everything we do. But do all of your goals only involve YOU? Of course not! And when the other person or persons in your goal does not perform or act the way you want them to act then we become anxious and stressed.
When our goals get blocked, it creates anger, anxiety, and frustration. If we only have good goals, we will not experience anger and anxiety. That’s how you know, if you are living a wrongful goal. If the result is anger and frustration because your control was blocked and your goal was blocked, then you had a wrongful goal. It may have been a fine and noble desire, but a wrongful goal.
We live in a world of consumerism and entertainment. History shows us that consuming entities always lose! Only entities that give win!
You are what you are on the inside and whatever you are on the inside manifests itself on the outside.
Hey, that should be a bumper sticker!
So the first step to the solution is to realize this IS NOT all about YOU! I am going to teach you how to love and commune with the world and you are in for an adventure you will never forget.
The opposite of love is hate (emotionally); the opposite of love is law (legally); the opposite of love is lust (morally). Obedience, not passion is the evidence of love.
Obedience! But obedience to what? you might ask. Ah, so the adventure begins…
Click here if you have the heart to change…
In my study of human behavior, I have found that relationships extend into commercial applications such as advertising, sales, and health. My website offers a thorough education in these topics so use the resources I provide in both your personal and professional lives. Everything revolves around relationships – both personal and professional. Once you understand how the mind functions; how each gender employs their respective psyches; how to train the mind, you will begin to see a pattern – one that is continuous and never failing. We spend most of time living in the external, which manifests itself in forming and changing our subconscious belief systems. These belief systems in turn determine behavior/conduct/actions. Now I will teach you break this vicious cycle and learn to live in the internal and then express it externally. Are you ready?
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